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One gay Christian seeking authenticity

Asexual Awareness Week at St Bride’s Liverpool

The Ace Crew (L-R): Katherine, honorary member Bishop Alan Wilson, Gary and Amy after the Open Table service on Sunday 16th October.

The Ace Crew (L-R): Katherine, honorary member Bishop Alan Wilson, Gary and Amy after the Open Table service on Sunday 16th October.

THIS is a guest post by Amy, Gary and Katherine, members of Open Table at St Bride’s Liverpool, about being asexual and raising awareness this month:

Today (Saturday 29th October) is the final day of Asexual Awareness Week (AAW).

Now in its seventh year, AAW was created to celebrate asexual, aromantic, demisexual and grey-sexual pride and also to promote awareness. AAW is important because asexuality is one of the minority sexualities in the LGBTQIA spectrum – lots of people don’t know much, if anything, about us. During Asexual Awareness Week asexual people work within the LGBTQIA community, both locally and on social media, to educate, inform and raise issues pertaining to the asexual spectrum. (more…)

Somewhere under the rainbow – Messages of love, thanks, wishes and prayers from Liverpool Pride

The Open Table community stall at Liverpool Pride, July 2016

The Open Table community stall at Liverpool Pride, July 2016

THE LAST two posts have told the experiences of members of the Open Table ecumenical worship community for LGBTQIA+ Christians at this year’s Liverpool Pride – Jen’s first experience of walking with a Christian group in a Pride march, and Richard’s experience of being on the Pride community stall. This post was inspired by the words of the visitors to the Open Table stall who left messages of love and thanks, wishes and prayers.


Sharing the Open Table at Liverpool Pride


Richard on the Open Table community stall at Liverpool Pride

THIS is a guest post by Richard Bibby-Brooke, a member of Open Table at St Bride’s Liverpool, who writes about being on our community stall at Liverpool Pride for the first time:

When I offered to help look after the Open Table community stall at Liverpool Pride this year, I did not expect the experience to be quite so enriching and educational as it turned out to be. A conversation with a friend in the days leading up to the event left me with a particular song in my head – Everyone Under the Sun by Vicky Beeching, my favourite gay Christian. Certain lines from the song kept coming to me throughout the weekend as different people approached the Open Table stall, so I thought it appropriate to refer to them in this reflection. (more…)

Love is all we need – A Christian marching at Liverpool Pride

Jen carrying our Liverpool icon, Anglican Bishop of Liverpool Paul Bayes, at Pride on Saturday 30th July.

Jen carrying our Liverpool icon, Anglican Bishop of Liverpool Paul Bayes, at Pride on Saturday 30th July.

THIS is a guest post by Jen Williams, a member of Open Table at St Bride’s Liverpool, who writes about walking with a Christian group in a Pride march for the first time:

Basking in the sun, under a brightly coloured rainbow umbrella, donning a rainbow cape, and wearing a beautiful white t-shirt with the brand new Open Table logo, holding an image of the wonderful Paul Bayes, Anglican Bishop of Liverpool up proudly, I marched through the streets of Liverpool as a confident, gay, Christian woman at Pride last weekend.

It marks my first Pride as a Christian, and it was especially moving to be able to share that with other LGBTQIA+ Christians, all part of the Open Table group. The intense flow of people to the beat of the Samba band, the beautiful music coming from the voices of choirs and singers also marching in the parade… all you need is love, love, love.


Liverpool Pride: Reflection on ‘Icons’ theme & Open Table 8th birthday

LiverpoolPrideTHIS is the reflection I gave for the eighth birthday of Open Table @ St Bride’s Liverpool on 17th July 2016, a celebration of what we have achieved in the past year, and looking forward to Liverpool Pride on 30th July with the theme: ‘Liverpool Icons’. I will follow this post with a report on our presence at this year’s Liverpool Pride.

So, here we all are, together to celebrate the eight birthday of Open Table. When Warren and I first came to support this new initiative from the local group of Changing Attitude, which campaigns for full LGBTI inclusion in the Anglican Communion, we couldn’t have dreamed that we’d be here today with so many others, commissioned by the Archdeacon of Liverpool to support the life and growth of this community for a further three years. (more…)

A brief history of Open Table – a journey in grace and truth

Open-Table-Logo_colour_webTHIS is an extract from a newly published book, Journeys in Grace and Truth, which asks:

Is it possible to hold a positive view of same-sex relationships while being a biblically rooted Evangelical?

It features essays from twelve senior Anglican Evangelicals who believe so, and share how they came to new insights. These include the current and former Bishops of Liverpool, the city where the following journey unfolds. Warren Hartley, and I, Kieran Bohan, are a lay couple, formally authorised by the current Bishop of Liverpool as Local Missional Leaders to care for Open Table, a monthly worshipping community for LGBT Christians, family, friends and allies – this is the story of that community:


#WeAreOrlando – Solidarity with those lost and injured in terror attack #OnePulse #LoveWins

Orlando victims collage

Victims of the shooting at Pulse gay night club, Orlando

SUCH a sad few days since news of the mass shooting at the Pulse nightclub broke on Sunday. The worst terror attack on US soil since 9/11, the worst gun crime in US history, and perhaps the largest murder of LGBT people since the Holocaust. How do we respond in the face of such horror?

I have struggled to find my own words, but my husband and I, as co-facilitators of Open Table, a monthly Christian service for LGBT people, friends family and allies in Liverpool, UK, I have shared on our community Facebook page a range of responses, including my own:

Pray for the victims, the attacker (also killed), and especially those who will judge this incident with homophobia, islamophobia and racism not compassion.


WATCH: #WhyWeFight UN ‘Free & Equal’ video marking #IDAHOT2016

IDAHOT-full-logoWhy do we need a worldwide day to defend LGBT rights?

At least 81 countries in the world criminalize same sex relationships. This means that 40% of the world population (or 2.8 billion people) are not free to choose who they love. Millions of homosexual and bisexual people live in a constant state of fear. In 10 countries, the death penalty can be applied for same sex acts.

A multitude of countries do not offer any form of legal recognition of trans and gender variant people’s true gender. With few exceptions, in almost all countries, which provide legal gender recognition, trans and gender variant people face compulsory psychiatric treatment and in the majority of countries even sterilization if they want their true gender to be recognized.


One Flesh: The Play – #LGBTHM review pt 7

One Flesh play blogIn Interfaith Week, November 2015, the LGBT Foundation in Manchester held an event called ‘Believing In LGBT Young People‘, which was the inspiration for the Divine Love event I facilitated in Liverpool in LGBT History Month this February.

At this event I met a young playwright and director who was promoting her new play, One Flesh, about an evangelical Christian woman who has fallen in love with another woman and seeks the blessing of her brother, a church pastor.

This is how the play’s flyer describes her dilemma:

Esther and Natalie are in love and want the approval of those they care about. But Esther’s brother, Caleb, thinks that God doesn’t approve.

Should they play things by The Book and cancel their plans for marriage? Will faith and family determine who they love?

As the theme for this year’s LGBT History Month was Religion, Belief and Philosophy, it felt right to explore a way to bring this performance to Liverpool, to supplement the dates already planned for late February in Manchester and Salford.

In the end, the date we set for Liverpool was 5th March, after the end of LGBT History Month, but I took the opportunity at all the previous events to promote the play. (more…)

Stonewall Interfaith Seminar – #LGBTHM review pt 6

Stonewall Poster detail
The last event I spoke at during LGBT History Month in February was the first interfaith seminar coordinated by the LGBT rights charity Stonewall.

The invitation came after I trained as a Role Model to deliver LGBT awareness sessions in schools registered as Stonewall School Champions. I wrote about my first experience as a Role Model in November 2015 here.

I was also invited to appear on a poster for LGBT History Month. As the theme this year was Religion, Belief & Philosophy, the aim of the poster campaign was to show that people can be both LGBT and have faith. You can see a detail of the poster above. During the month Role Model stories were shared on social media – you can read them here and see the poster here. (more…)